We Are Worthy to be seen, to be heard, to be acknowledged and respected. Today is the day to raise your voice and roar. A day to celebrate how strong, unique and wonderful we are.
A day to say “I AM WORTHY” - just for being me!
Be Seen - Be Heard
We are worthy as individuals to be seen and heard not just for seven days but every day, across each and every year. Unfortunately this appears unlikely to happen unless we find the courage to instigate these changes ourselves. Two initiatives have been started by people within our community, that you could support and participate in are:
If you have a project that World Childless Week can support, or have instigated a positive change for our comunity, I’d love to hear from you. Your story to “Be Seen and Be Heard” could uplift and encourage others to also take that first step towards creating positive change.
It can take courage to speak up, or live full, when judgment and hurt may make us want to withdraw. How do we find courage when we may also feel vulnerable? How can we find self-compassion if we recognise we’re not ready or it’s not safe enough to speak up? Join Judy Graham, Naomi Geidel, Sarah Bradley and Melanie Mackie for this heartfelt discussion as they share stories of finding courage and compassion in our childless lives.
Acceptance is an often misunderstood concept as it relates to grief and childlessness. Practicing acceptance doesn't mean that you feel good about being childless. It means you are learning to exist with your grief. Join Sarah Jane Smith for a guided Self-Compassion Meditation practice with the theme of acceptance. This practice is open to all levels of experience with meditation, no experience necessary.
Living without kids still carries taboo, stigma and negative stereotypes. These societal beliefs are often ingrained in us, from messaging we hear both as children and as we navigate our own experience of being childless. In this panel discussion Katy Seppi, Aisha Balesaria, Helen Robertson, Alisha Saavedra and Tiffany J. Marie chat about how to deconstruct the messages we've been told and how to cultivate self-worth on our own terms.
Join Maria Hill, Stephanie Joy Phillips, Yvonne John, Sarah Bradley, Catherine-Emmanuelle Delisle and Helen Louise Jones as they talk about Queen energy. How it emerges from a combination of natural wisdom, world experience, the grieving process, and the end of traditional social models. It is not the ceremonial queen that we see today, not the power behind the throne queen of the past. It is the full whole embodied feminine in all of her glory and capability, and wisdom.
I wasn’t supposed to own cat. And I wasn’t supposed to be childless. I had wanted a dog.
For years, we’ve been meeting
on Zoom and on WhatsApp almost
every day: My life of being childless is
As I write these words, tears are falling. Is this something I truly believe in my soul, or am I just convincing myself they’re true? After all, could I actually be worthy while failing to have children?
I want to acknowledge all of the childless women who fight the painful images and reminders of what they’ll never have.
Being Childless, very much not by choice is a difficult situation to navigate. It can leave you feeling drained and without a sense of purpose. I lost me, I lost my sense of self.
For some women it’s miscarriage. For some it’s infertility. For some it’s social infertility (financial, not meeting the right partner, or something else). For some it’s stillbirth. For some it’s ectopic pregnancy. For many of us it can be a cruel combination of more than one.
As childless people, we are worthy of being recognised, acknowledged and included in our workplaces.
Not enough, is the message I was told.
Not enough, until a baby you make, was the message sold.
It took a long time to get here. There were times I thought that I would be mourning every day, constantly reminded of everything that I didn’t have.
My long empty life stretches ahead of me. There will be no christenings, no birthdays, first days at school, exam results to celebrate, no landmarks of any kind.
This piece is a reflection on the very special role of meditation classes for Childlessness not by Choice in my healing journey.
Throughout the first three years of grief, a sensation gnawed at me. It pushed in towards the core of my body from the outside, coming at me from all directions, squashing my chest with the weight of its questions.
A dear friend said to me a while ago how lovely it was for her to see me interact with her (teenage) children.
Change is inevitable. It’s constant. We can’t escape it. It’s inside of us and outside of us. If we resist it, we suffer.
Just before my 40th birthday, I started a blog where I shared my confusion about my age and stage and posed the questions I couldn’t get out of my head:
I was maybe 7 or 8 years old when I realized that the time between when my parents got married and when I was born was less than nine months.
World Childless Week is the time for us to roar with worthiness, pride and joy. A hearty, bellowing roar that fills the air with how very worthy we are!!!
It can seem like a lifelong journey to feel worthy if you don’t fit neatly into the roles our patriarchal society sets out for women…that of mother and, in my case, wife.
“I am worthy” - just for being me means that I am allowed to feel good about myself when I am walking down the halls of someone else’s house whilst seeing photos occupying every bit of wall space showing children..
Childless
Does not mean
Less than