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Healing Horseshoe, by Childless.Life: A Safe Space for Childless Women 

Join our Healing Horseshoe, by Childless.Life: A Safe Space for Childless Women 

Are you a woman who is permanently childless, not by choice or by circumstances? Do you long for a safe haven where your story is understood, witnessed, and honored? Look no further than Healing Horseshoe!

Healing Horseshoe is a small support community designed exclusively for women like us who are grieving the loss of our so desired children. We understand the unique challenges and emotions that come with being permanently childless, whether due to circumstances or infertility. Our mission is to provide a nurturing space where you can be yourself, connect with others who "get it," and embark on a journey of healing together.

Community Support: Connect with other permanently childless women from across the globe, share experiences, and build friendships in a safe and supportive environment.

Sacred Space: Create a safe space where vulnerability is embraced, emotions are expressed without judgment, and genuine connections flourish.

Professional Guidance: Benefit from the expertise of Sandra McNicol, Lived Experience of being CNBC, Grief Therapist and Life Coach, providing professional facilitation and support tailored to the groups needs.

Meeting Schedule: We meet monthly on Zoom, with 7 live sessions split across 12 hours. This includes 3 live workshops (2 hours each) and 4 community calls (1.5 hours each), where you can bring up topics that matter most to you. We have two new times: 

  • Monthly on Thu at 7am EST, 12pm UK, 1pm EU, 7pm Singapore (starts on Aug 29) (only 2 spots left)

  • Monthly on Tue at 8am PST, 11am EST, 4pm UK or 5pm EU (starts Sept 10)

Check our schedule and start dates here

Membership Fee: 200 Euros

How to Join: Ready to embark on your healing journey? Visit our website https://www.childless.life/healinghorseshoe to learn more and sign up today! These new times are expected to be popular and spaces are very limited. Sandra will reach out to schedule a 30 min chat to answer any questions. sandra@childless.life


Sandra McNicol, Childless.Life

My name is Sandra McNicol and I am permanently childless, not by choice too. I, therefore, have first-hand experience of the multi-layered challenges of being childless. While we are all unique and have very personal stories, I empathize with how hard our journey is and offer you safe and non-judgmental support from a lived (and in progress) experience.

As a coach and grief therapist, I offer empathetic and grief-aware sessions to women from across the globe, who are childless not by choice. I provide compassionate support and inspiration to help navigate the unique challenges we face as we move forward in our unexpected lives without children.


Testimonials

I tried so many different types of support groups hoping to find some comfort in my grief, but I never felt that I quite fitted. Then, last year  I found the group with Sandra. It is hard to put into words the incredible impact this has had on my life. I have felt so safe in this wonderful group. I have met such compassionate and loving women who have nurtured my interest in life again. Through emotional conversations and gentle quiet moments I have found the way to feel safe to feel my emotions again. Thank you to Sandra and my beautiful horseshoe friends. It feels so wonderful to have found a place where I belong.  Nicky, UK

When I found Sandra, it was 20 years after I learned I would be childless due to infertility.  I remember before I left the infertility doctor's office that day I asked if he knew any therapists to help me deal with this shocking reality.  Unfortunately, there weren't many around at that time. So - fast forward to 2024 and my childlessness grief was old, stuck inside me, and had became a heavy part of what I carried around every day.  But working with Sandra, even with this ancient solidified grief, allowed me to finally acknowledge and process all the pain.  She held space for all of it to come through in whatever way it wanted to in the moment:  angry, tender, desperate, deeply sorrowful.  There is nothing that compares with the healing that comes from working with someone like Sandra who knows herself what the pain of childlessness is.    Our sessions were like good medicine every time.  She is a loving and compassionate witness to the pain; I always felt safe with her.  The gentle guidance she provided through the grieving process was exactly what I needed. Terri, USA

Joining Sandra’s group has been the biggest support factor in all of my CNBC journey. It’s really helpful and healing to be each other’s witness on this heartbreaking but also heart & life rebuilding journey.  If you have any doubts, be assured that this is one of the best moves you can make. Anette, The Netherlands

Visit our website https://www.childless.life/healinghorseshoe to learn more and sign up today!