I am a singer/songwriter and musician and in 2018 I released an album entitled Seamonster, inspired by my experience of being childless not by choice.
Read moreMy IVF Story
I am 50 years old. It’s been 7 years since my IVF treatment ended and with it a dream of having my own children. Going through IVF treatment is one of the toughest challenges I have ever encountered both emotionally, mentally and physically.
Read moreRediscovering me
It first dawned on me that I would probably remain childless at age 43, although I still harboured a secret wish that it would happen.
Read moreThings I Learned About Being A Godparent
Many people who discover that they’re unlikely to have children sadly also start to think that they can’t have any kind of meaningful contact with children. That’s not true of course.
Read moreReflecting Upon Treasured Photos
This photo of my dear husband on the Atlantic shoreline of southwest Ireland is one of my favourites.
Read moreBut Here I Am
How leaning into charitable activities helped me find meaning
Here I am in my fifties finding myself in a place I never dreamed of–being involuntarily childless.
Read moreFinding My Spirit Again
Prior to getting married, I was pretty ambivalent about having kids and spent my entire twenties enjoying life to the brim.
Read moreParalyzed
When we ended 6 years of struggle to conceive a child in February of 2020 I was devastated as well as relieved. But most of all I was paralyzed.
Read moreThe child that never was
They told me I was grieving, only I wasn’t sure what I was grieving for.
Read moreCaught in the middle: childfree not by choice
Am I childless? Yes. I tried to have a child and it didn’t work out.
Read moreThe Pool Moment
My Story And Finding Acceptance
I always wanted to be a mom since about the age of 6. I never wanted a career but to be just a mom .
Read moreHow I moved forward by #RedefiningmyPlanA
#RedefiningmyPlanA is how I eventually found the strength to move forward after accepting that my journey (of trying to have a child of my own) was over.
Read moreHow to be amazingly happy!
How do you find a new ‘once upon a time’ after the ‘happy ever after’ never turned up? Victoria is on a quest to discover how you make a new life when you can’t have the one you imagined.
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