The outstretched hands in the 4th verse are those of the Gateway Women community.

Where did I go?
I hardly know
During those years
Where becoming a mother was everything
Getting pregnant
Having a baby
Being a mum
Was what mattered most to me
Life was all about if and when
A life beyond motherhood?
Unliveable
Unthinkable
Unimaginable
Out of the dark grief
New meaning whispers
Acceptance takes my hand
The whispers get louder
Slowly releasing the tight grip of my hand
And finding
Many hands outstretched
Reaching out
People who understand
“We see you, we hear you, we’ve got you”
And here I am
Living that unliveable life
That unthinkable life
That unimaginable life
As a childless person
Coming home
Back to myself
Unbecoming
Who I thought I should be
As time passes
Remorse and recriminations start to fade
But the love remains
The what ifs and should haves ease
And the love remains
The love for the children I never had